Non-violent Methods are Better Way of Training Children

As we have, physical punishment has al representations been an strong way for assumeing animals. Once they become wild, flinging the whip is what we do to take them being well-behaved. However, does it work for training children? Are their demeanors all get break-dance and better after that? In my point of view, I strongly intent parents who admire that physical punishment is the best way to teach and train their own children. Although the pain of body is easy to take shape people bunco the lesson, on the other hand, it may also be easy to intrust the scars on body and gist, cause family problems and losing the opportunities for children to judge the proper(a) and wrong by themselves own.First of all, dismantle the pain of punishment depart disappear, the scars on body and heart somehow will remain for the entire life. With no doubt, teaching children not to spill the milk on the floor by simply slapping on their bottoms would be a rapid way to warn them not to pass on the same mistake again. However, I think your children would remember how wild you plow them more than the lesson theyve learned and reflect this rage on their children in the next by teaching them in same way. In addition, some researches even have shown the causes of some criminals psychological problems goat be traced back to their parents serious physical punishment or even abuse. The creator dictator of Iraq Saddam Hussein would be a good example.Second, without power in the house, I believe children will have a happier childishness and get along with their parents better when they grow up. If we observe the relationship between parents and children more carefully, it is not hard to find out the happiness animate in the house is not simply connected to childrens behavior but also parents. After all, simply punish them physically cant make them easier to understand what exact the mistake they make because they only admit its wrong but fall apartt know why it is wro ng. However, although it takes more time, if you explain to them why they do is wrong and what bad results they may cause instead of punish them, then it would be easier to make them understand this mistake can not be done again without making an awkward atmosphere in the family.Finally, to let the children know what is right and what is wrong, I think the best way for them is to experience and judge by themselves. Like I mentioned above, the most important principle is let them know why its wrong. Once they find out, then their brain will naturally tell them not to do it before they get equipment casualty (no matter by themselves or parents). For instance, even you strongly warned your children dont get too close to the fire, they still want to touch and see it what it is. But once they suffer from the pain of burning, I assure you they dont dare to do it again on purpose.To make a conclusion, I think physical punishment is not the best way to train children. Although it is fast and effective sometimes, you will never know what consequences it may bring in the future. After all, compared to the bad relationship and many problems it may cause, the long time it takes to teach a child in a liberal and gentle way seems very worthy.